This is the week when I become convinced that the founders of NaBloPoMo must have strange relationships with Thanksgiving. Who chooses November to post every day? This one week alone must take a lot of people in the States right out of the running.
I thrill to the sight of long lines of cars on the freeway. I know I'm going to some sort of environmentalist hell, but I think it's beautiful. And at holidays, when I can imagine that everyone is traveling to the beach or the mountains or to the town where their parents still live, I love the sight of a crowded highway even more. There's such a thrill of common purpose.
It's especially beautiful to see car headlights stretching out for miles, of course, because that means I'm going in the opposite direction.
Damn. Now I can't remember the third thought.
[This was not the third thought, but: I want to write more about the way that people's standards change when they go from one baby to two, because that was how I read the two posts I linked -- you know, the first baby ate nothing but organic foods according to a book outlining when to introduce them, but the second baby is eating boxed Mac & Cheese before she's six months old -- but my head is mush. I seem to remember nodding my head at Melissa comparing her willingness to cook with her first-born toddler to her reluctance now that she has six kids, because "helpful" toddlers make so much more work. I felt a lot of guilt because I turned down my kids' offers of "help" so often. It was nice to be reminded that most parents of more than one kid find their assistance to be a mixed bag.]